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I kidnapped my friend's cat

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Wednesday, August 3, 2011
House cat
After living there for six months, I had finally had enough, so when the cat had another one of its attacks I decided it was time to take action.
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Years ago, after leaving my long-term partner, I moved in with a friend, Sarah. We had known each other for about 10 years but had never been very close. However she offered me a room, which I saw as an out so I took it. Mostly we got along well, but she had a cat which I hated intently.

Sarah had a boyfriend who lived in another suburb and about three or four times a week she went and stayed at his place. Leaving me with the cat.

She rarely fed it, always forgetting to buy its food and worst of all hardly ever emptied its festering, stinking litter tray. I resented how she just expected me to look after this cat I despised. She never took much interest in it, even when she was home she rarely remembered to feed it and if she was out of food she simply locked it outside so she didn't have to listen to it cry.

The cat was a little strange as well, having all kinds of crazy attacks where it would bolt around the house for 30 minutes and then proceed to meow for about half an hour, trying to rub up against my legs incessantly, leaving its fur all over my clothes.

Goodness knows why, when I never showed it any attention, but it would also always try to sit on me if I was watching TV and often it would sneak into my room and hide under my bed and then refuse to come out. To put it mildly, the cat irritated the living daylights out of me.

After living there for six months, I had finally had enough, so when the cat had another one of its attacks I decided it was time to take action.

I packed the cat into a pet carrier and went for a drive. I drove for about an hour, finally coming to a stop in a small town. I pulled up in a park, made sure no one was around and opened the cage. The cat bolted out of the cage into the park. I quickly shut the door, got back in the car and drove off.

When I got home I made sure I put the pet carrier back in the same spot it had been before, and went about my day.

When Sarah came home that night, she didn't seem to notice the cat missing. I didn't say a word. It wasn't until about three days later she asked me "have you seen the cat?"

I said I had seen it the day before but not since. She frantically rang animal shelters and vets, but the animal was not micro-chipped or registered, so she of course had no luck.

It took her a week to come to grips with the fact that the cat had simply vanished. I did feel a little bad because she had paid a lot of money for it but mostly I was just relieved that I no longer had to put up with its noise, fur and smells or the burden of taking care of it when she wasn't there. I actually hope it found a new home, with someone who wanted it and fed it daily.

To this day she still thinks that it was stolen, or killed and I've never said a word to make her think otherwise. Thankfully she hasn't been tempted to replace it, yet.

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User comments
These people are to blame for the feral cat problem.
I mean really? Move somewhere else! You weren't even that close to your friend. Also, rache you are horrible! Have someone's pet killed behind their backs?! What is wrong with you? You two have no rights to get rid of someone else's pet just because they are an inconvenience to you. I hope you get caught and prosecuted.
I wish I hadn't read this story. I feel sick to the stomach that this poor cat who was clearly desperate for love, affection and FOOD, was just dumped by you. You're a horrible excuse for a human being and I hope wondering what happened to that poor cat keeps you awake at night.
What is the point of having a whole spiel about how badly your friend treated the cat by not feeding it and not paying it attention, when what she did was nothing against the absolute crulety and selfish act of abandoning a helpless, innocent animal. If the cat was lucky to some how survive, it would most likey turn feral and could even hurt someone. You are disgusting.
I know a lot of people don't like cats, but that is just cruel. You would like it if that happened to you and you deserve it! Cats are full of love and joy. You abandoned a cat that belonged to a friend that took you in and you did nothing to repay her. You are a horrible cruel person!
I'm not sure I believe half the crap you have written. I'm sure your friend looked after the cat and you are just trying to justify getting rid of it. What you did was disgusting and horrible. Karma will get you back. I hope the car found a new home.
do u relise what u have done to that cat. it might be dead now because u just dumped it. or it might starve to death because ur heartless or turn fereal. and its people like you that there are poor cats out there that get traped and killed, because people dont want there cats any more and just let them go in the wild.
You are a despicable person. That was an idiotic, heartless thing to do. I am amazed at the horrid things people as ignorant as you do to poor little animals who only crave love and affection. Get a conscience.
two horrible people who deserve each other & not the unconditional love of an animal! also, the behaviour of the cat you described is completely normal by the way!! they generally ARE crazy & bring much joy to people with a place in their heart for their quirks. it's not the cats fault it was cursed living with uncaring people who showed it no care, love or attention. if your friend neglected the cat you could have taken it to a shelter or advertised it online for a new LOVING home. i sincerely hope it found itself somewhere pleasant to live, far far away from you!
Let me preface this by stating that I dislike cats, and crazy cat lovers who place more value on cats than humans. I think what you did was rotten to your friend who took you in when you needed a place to stay. The cat is another story. I hope it was able to fend for itself, being a house cat.

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