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Back at work seven hours after giving birth!

Monday, March 15, 2010
Back at work seven hours after giving birth!
Teacher Helen Wright says she’s setting a good example going back to her teaching job straight after having a baby. Jon Kaila reports.

Helen Wright went into labour in the morning … and was back at work by lunchtime.

She keeps baby Jessica with her throughout the day so she can breastfeed her – and even conducts meetings and school assemblies with the tot in a sling!

“Most parents want their daughters to have the exhilarating excitement of a career they love and the joy of a family,” says 39-year-old Helen, mother of three and the principal of an all-girls school in Wiltshire.

“I have that, and I want to show the girls that it’s not an impossible dream. “The students have loved having Jessica around and their faces light up when they are near her. She is such a good baby too.

“I just couldn’t hand them over to someone else to look after and bring them up,” Helen continues. “I don’t believe in doing that. Plus I have a job that is full of responsibilities and these pupils need stability, so it made sense to have Jessica with me from the beginning.’’

Helen explains that she breastfeeds Jessica, now 12 weeks, between meetings and lets the tot sleep in a moses basket beside her desk.

“The day I had Jessica I went to hospital at 5.45am and I had her less than an hour later,” Helen says. “I was then discharged three hours later and felt absolutely brilliant, so I thought why not share that?

“I was back in my office at school just after lunch and was immediately introducing my beautiful daughter to everyone.

“I look after people’s daughters for them so they expect me to be pretty special and an excellent role model,” Helen adds.

Read the full story in this week's Woman's Day, on sale March 15, 2010.

Your say: Do you think Helen Wright has done the right thing? Share your thoughts below.

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I am really torn on this story, I think if she felt good about it then good for her, however I am worried about the pressure that stories like this place on expecting and new mothers. Women already face incredible pressure to be the perfect mothers, partners, and financial providers and this is only going to perpetuate unrealistic expectations. Child birth is not a little thing, women can and still do die giving birth because of the strain it places on your body. You need to heal after going through this, and spend time bonding with your new born. If this lady felt really comfortable, well she'd know her body best, but she is sending a message to all of her young female students about what their roles are and what they can and must do as women.
Stay at home Mum's don't 'convince our husbands that the housework takes 7 hours a day'. We would all go back to work ASAP if we really HAD to but the ones that choose to stay home do it not because it's 'easy' but because we had kids to enjoy them and spend time with them, not leave them in daycare & go to work. I plan to study soon so I can have a great job once my Daughter is in school (& I do volunteer work, keep a spotless house, cook a healthy meal daily, take my daughter to the park, fit in exercise etc) but once I do go back to work I'll feel great knowing I spent those precious first few years making my Daughter my number 1 priority & giving her a great start in life. In my eyes, that example is just as important as other women that juggle career & baby. I worked for 6 years & then had my Daughter & the 24-7 demand of a baby is harder than what I faced at work. I guess the women that think being at home is so 'easy' probably never left the house. I am always on the go!
i worked untill 9pm the night b4 the birth of my son at quater to six in the morning and wanted to go to work at seven am that morning. Both my labours were great and the second child was a 30min labour. From the first contraction to her being out. A few of my friends have had one hours labours ....it all depends on what u do leading up to it. Lots of walking and lots of it!!!! gets your pelvis muscles working and makes the labour quicker easier and less pain full
I had my son at 5 45am and wanted to go to work at 7am after a 6hr labour but the doctor wouldnt let me. I wasn't tired and was fully energised. Then with my daughters, a 30min labour, I felt like sleeping forever.....I guess it depends on the labour and how much it wears you out. I would of loved to have an employer that would let me have taken the baby too work with me, but unfortunally they made me wait 6weeks before I could. It is a great idea having the baby there to teach the children about life but isnt that the parents job? And teachers etc teach them other things? And isn't she scared her baby would catch all those childhood sickness..... Going from a day care centre to a school a parent learns very quickly how easy it is for a child to catch something..... I see both sides of the debate and think her story is wonderfull but doesn't being a parent mean being there and keeping them healthy???? Sounds like she cares more about her career then the baby's health!!!!!!
Helen is one of the most extreme Mothers I read about in Womens Day Magazines but to hear about the Birth & Back on her feet at work with her baby, I call it Bonding - its just amazing! I wish I could pull something off like that. I do believe that all Mothers have different styles & actions after birth, mine was "sleep quick before she gets up"!, Helen has done nothing wrong at all. Those should stop being Jealous of her & start thinking about the real deal of being a mother on a job - its not like she's putting herself & the baby in danger. Helen, your a wounderful role model, good on you!
Good on Helen for doing what she believes in. We all have different ideas on what is 'proper' for our children but I wouldn't prescribe this for everybody. I'm glad that the students are able to learn a bit about the facts of life by this remarkable woman being able to show them what it's all about having a new-born baby. At the age that the baby is, it's quite reasonable to have it with her as it is so young to mostly sleep and feed. I doubt that in the future it will be so easy however and I think having a two yr old (for example) running around the place whilst trying to run a school will not be such an easy proposition. I've had 4 children myself and I wouldn't dream of taking them to work with me, for me, work is 'my time' where I get to distinguish my personality apart from my home (mothering) life. That being said, each to their own!
I think this is wrong, its not setting a good example and she needs to give it time for her body to heal and to just enjoy her child, I think its damaging to also bring up her child in the working environment, it is not a good environment to raise your child and it is not constructive in any way. There is a reason they get you to stay in hospital after giving birth (most of the time) and the mother has ignored all of that. She should not have had a child if these were her plans from the beginning, it is career driven and in my eyes wrong! Plus worst of all the baby could become sick from something a school child may have, it is not just bad for the baby but also the other children, they would not be able to concentrate having a baby there, the mother needs to face facts and put what is most important to her first!
Firstly, this lady is a PRINCIPAL not an in class teacher so that makes a difference in regards to face to face teaching of young women, BUT she is the principal and sets a standard as a mentor, how can you concentrate on running a school whilst looking after a new born? Thank goodness the government has sense and doesn't allow this practice in public schools! I think that this private school need to look at its OH&S regulations a little better. It's not about just you Helen Wright, its about the students first and for most. Their education and development, and then you should consider the imact on the child. With Swine flu and whooping cough so prominent, only a fool of a mother would expose her new born child to such risks. Most working environments are unsuitable for children & babies, schools are one of them! I worked as a carer before I had my baby 5 months ago ... I wouldn't dream of taking a new born into that environment. Maternity leave is made for just that!!
She wasn't doing this for anyone but herself---to "show off". I wonder how this woman will cope with a set back or when things don't always go perfectly. If she taught at the school I am at she would not dare. I am in a school with a high proportion of boys from ethnic backgrounds and they would have sent her home packing and I probably would not blame them. This woman is a bad example to all women and sets our cause back hundreds of years. I wonder what she says to the girls about cultures where women have to squat in rice fields to give birth then back to work----no uhahhhing then hey?
Shes just doing what she can. After the birth of my 4th daughter, i felt I could do anything. I wanted to get up have a bath, walk the dogs, take the kids to the park. And I was at home, so I did. The same night I checked my emails, wrote a blog post and was still feeling great. Brand new babies are not that demanding when its not your first and you have the experience. She must be a highly organised woman. Im sure she took reasonable breaks and I highly doubt she was pulling out her breast in front of students JENN. Also breastfed babies are so protected against disease that I don't think mumps would really be an issue. Sheesh! This lady is inspiring.

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