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Women in control have less sex study finds

Friday, September 23, 2011
Women in control have less sex study finds
"The more decisions a woman reported making on her own, as compared to joint decision making, the less likely she was to have sex and the longer it was since she last had sexual intercourse."
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Married women who are the decision makers in family have less sex than those who make decisions with their husbands, a new study has found.

The Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health in Baltimore study found that some in-control homemakers can go up to 100 times longer without sex than women who share the responsibility of making decisions.

The study found that woman in control, also take control in the bedroom because less sex may be a sign of women protecting their 'sexual rights'.

The research, which looked at women in six African countries where roles are clearly defined, looked at the level of decision making and compared it to their own accounts of their sexual relationships the Journal of Sex Research reported.

It found there was a clear link between those female house makers who took charge and the amount of sex they had.

"As the number of decisions in which women had the final say increased, the mean and median time since most recent sex also increased by three to 100-fold," lead author of the study and an associate professor Michelle Hindin said.

"The more decisions a woman reported making on her own, as compared to joint decision making, the less likely she was to have sex and the longer it was since she last had sexual intercourse."

Study co-author Carie Muntifering said this finding may in fact be controlled by choice rather than side effect as it suggests women in control of the household may have more control over how often they have sex.

"Understanding how women's position in the household influences their sexual activity may be an essential piece in protecting the sexual rights of women and helping them to achieve a sexual life that is both safe and pleasurable," she said.

"Additional studies are needed to further explore the strong association between women's decision-making power and recent sexual activity that was found in our analyses."




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When a woman is in total control of a household and makes all the decisions then i totally understand why she would be having less sex...because a man who is his wifes doormat is so so unsexy. She probably would like to be having sex with someone else, instead of the man-baby she has to look after and do everything for!
The study is flawed, just try and read the research paper. It’s based on a highly patriarchal society (bias). So can hardly be extrapolated to western society, always question this type of reporting. Just a heads up for Elliott, I have been in two relationships both of which have ended due the women involved doing next to nothing to contribute to the running of the household. Gender Bias works both ways, you find lazy Bar****ds in both genders. Cooking and cleaning skills highly prized in any person. Sorry for your bad experiences.
The report does not mention patriarchal households where the man is the primary decision maker, so there is a bias in the study. However, following the logic of the study’s findings, one would expect women in such households to have the best sex life of all. Some of the comments so far, indicate that. Patriarchal males are sexier. What the study does report is that women who dominate at home, making all the decisions, get less sex than those who share decision making. One could put this the other way around, and say that men who have no authority at home get (and give) much less, romantically. Patriarchal is best after all.
Most women are controlling. The more they control someone the LESS respect & attraction they have for that person, so naturally they don’t feel regular desire for sex with that man (other men probably). These married men have been castrated by their wives. These married women are walking all over their husbands and the men are paying the price. Real men who get as much sex as they need are in control, are responsible, have integrity, are dominant in respect to leadership, their wives respect them, are attracted to them and will keep them satisfied........ That's the way it was for hundreds of thousands of years. These so called men whose wives have their balls in her handbag need to take a good hard look at themselves, shake off their skirts, stop thinking their wife is their mother and get on with the job of being the real man !
In my previous relationship his number one complaint was that we didn't have enough sex and all I could say was sorry I don't feel like it. I was more in charge in that relationship. In my current relationship I have frequent sex and can't get enough. The difference he takes an interest in decision making in the house, listens to me and I can trust him to do things for me, he remembers things and will remind me. I have a man not an adult child and it is a relief. I am independent women but it is nice to have the choice to be head of the house not be one by default. HInt, if you're not getting enough sex men, be involved in matters beyond the bedroom.
This really is a commonsense thing that ought to be well understand by now. Yes yes, we know all about womens' lib. and the right to work and be all bossy etc. But ya' should all know that in the eyes of a man, this makes a woman look emotionally unattractive. For some men it can even be a souce of deep insecurity, and they might be less likely to initiate sex. As a man, when I see a bossy woman, I see immaturity and weakness. The strong women are the ones who have learnt that they don't need to boss their man around. They feel perfectly content to support him and stand by his side. Trust me, there is nothing sexier than that!
Once a couple have settled down it shouldn't be a hassle for either party to get sex, I mean come on people what is soo hard about sex.... Why make it soo hard?! Life is not ment to be hard, this is a joy that we can enjoy whenever we like.
Assuming that both types of relationships are healthy active ones this study has interesting results. When the woman makes most of the decisions over joint decision making, there could be a fracture in the realtionship and yeah...less sex, meaning this study is pretty stupid. Cause and effect of a failing married life. I agree with Miss Newcastle too...a bossy woman is not very attractive. Can this study!!!
Re sex life & role in the home - My wife is a solicitor, has a powerful position and a hectic schedule but does not attempt to be the head of the house, that'd only upset the balance. We both share the load at home, but both have the view it isn't a man's job to clean. I do a lot of cooking however - elliot, a woman also has arms but do you do the oilchanges on your car, change washers or do the heavy lifting? My point is not a sexist one - i treat her like a woman, and she treats me like a man - and our sex life is great. hmmmmm....... the way it used to be perhaps?
My wife is a control freik. She has no sex.Thats the one thing she can't command. She now lives OS. I are soooooo happy

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