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Working mums aren't in it for the money

Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Working mums aren't in it for the money
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"About one-third of the 40 employed mothers expressed some ambivalence or guilt over their employment, but most employed mothers justified their paid work by saying it made them more fulfilled people, in addition to better mothers."
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A new US study has found that although working mums are busy, that's the way they like it.

The study, which surveyed employed mothers, found that most would work even if they didn't have to, however, they were also looking for new ways at being the ideal employee managing both motherhood and work commitments.

Unlike earlier research this study, which was published in Gender & Society, highlighted that the employed mothers emphasised the benefits they, and their children, receive from their paid work.

Carried out by Karen Christopher, an associate professor of Women's/Gender Studies and Sociology at the University of Louisville, the study found that both married and single mothers said they found more fulfilment and gained self-confidence from paid work than in parenting.

This is the essential reason why they chose not to stay at home with their children full time.

Although the women studied said that they enjoyed their careers, they also put limitations on how much they work. In fact, many of the women said they sought out employment by looking for employers that did not demand long hours, this also included high-powered professions such as lawyers.

The study was conducted by surveying a group of young mothers, from Canada and the US of different racial/ethnic backgrounds, class and marital status. Most women in the study were born between 1970 and 1985 with 40 working mothers, each having at least one child under the age of five and over half the women had two children.

Although each mothers' situation is different, associate professor Christopher said almost all of them wanted to work.

She said that while these mums are not spending intensive amounts of time with their kids, they see themselves as involved parents who are "in charge" of their children's lives.

"About one-third of the 40 employed mothers expressed some ambivalence or guilt over their employment, but most employed mothers justified their paid work by saying it made them more fulfilled people, in addition to better mothers," she said.

"So, these mothers are not only reframing what good mothering entails, they also frame employment in ways different than do earlier studies of mothers."

In the US mothers' employment rates have risen. In 2010, about two-thirds of North American mothers with young children worked outside of the home.

Your say: How do you feel about this study? Share your thoughts below.




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I have to say I am apaulled by the above comments, you know if all the women of the world became less judgmental of others the world would be such a lot nicer and less stressful place. Get of each others back. I am a stay at home mum and like most we have made the decision to go without a lot of things as a result of this. Our eldest is in 1 day childcare a week but we get no huge benefits off the government for this. So just stop having a go at each other and do whatever you want to do.
I worked with three children once my husband left me and did not provide any support. It was tough but I did it - those kids are now 16, 17 and 18 and I do not go to Centrelink for anything and haven't done so for six years. I do not need hand outs, I can provide for my own family.
i have had 4 children that have grown up in that time i worked night shift and my husband worked day until they were older enough to look after themselves after school things are to materialistic that people wont to have there cake and eat it too it is your choice to have kids so don't ask the government for hand outs all the time when the kids are old enough to look after themselves are you going to pay the government back when you don't need child care i think not so suck it up years ago there wasn't all this help and people got by.
Having children is a choice. You don't have children to get benefits off the government.Why should everyone else be paying because you made a choice. I don't see why unemployed people need daycare be it 5 hours or full-time. I have seen kids at a daycare centre and neither parent work, yet they are there 5 days a week, whilst the parents are at home, at the pub, out shopping, with friends. If you are not employed - earning and income, you are unemployed. Being a mother or a father is not employment. Children who come from families where one or more parents do not work tend to have less of a work ethic that those from parents who both work. Little johnny does not need his mummy around him all the time. You are not less of a parent because you contribute to society rather than just take handouts. If you make the choice to become a parent, then you make the choice to financially support that child- food, daycare, outings, clothes etc. I didn't make that choice- why should I pay?
WORKING MUM - I am offended by your comments you made, I am a single mum who gets all of those payments at the moment, but you know what! Who knew I would be divorced and left to raise 3 kids, 2 with special needs by myself while their dad has them two days every fortnight and does not pay an extra cent than he is supposed to, even though my son is a giant ten year old who practically eats what he gives me a fortnight in payments in one week. I want to go out to work, but the $50 a day (after the Centrelink rebate) I cannot afford, I also cannot leave my two special needs kids at home by themselves and the jobs I have gone for are not school hours. I am also offended by unemployed mums get preference, umm no, I had to go on a waiting list for childcare just like everyone else, I had a wonderful job that I loved and when I got divorced my ex took the car which I used to get to work at 4 am and I could not get any transport 30 mins away to get there so I had to quit. DONT JUDGE PEOPLE
I am sick of people who whinge about how hard it is and the cost of daycare, lack thereof for working mums. Guess what I chose to have kids, I also returned to work when both were 12 months old - both my kids went to family daycare at minimal cost compared to fancy daycare centres. Daycare should be affordable and should be made available to genuine working parents first - not so Mums can go off and have some alone time or coffee with their girlfriends. I didn't get any financial assistance after having my kids and frankly why should I, I chose to have them because I wanted them. You shouldn't have kids and not expect to make sacrafices.
I know there are many working mums out there working because they don't have a choice. Because their lousy ex refuses to acknowledge the cost of raising a child or refuses to acknowledge they have a child. Those mums that have a choice and still go to work .. well .. they're the lucky ones!!
Stay at home mums receive more CCB than those returning to work because if you are in the workforce you HAVE MORE MONEY Duh. And Stay at home mums are only allowed 24 hours of childcare a week. Working mothers not only get Child care benefit but also get childcare cash rebate up to 7K a year per child, stay at home mums DONT. So dont whinge that you cant afford childcare.If you are not eligible for CCCR or CCB then YOU EARN SO MUCH MONEY that you dont need it.People who have to return to work for financial reasons when their babies are a couple of months old obviously are horrendous at budgeting.
I really resent MUMS being called "unemployed". As a mother you are in no way unemployed, you are raising children, who are the future of society. It is about time society started treating mothers with a lot more respect. It is an absolute outrage that the Government forces single mothers back to work when their children get to primary school.It is ILLEGAL to leave a child under 12 at home alone, you cannot get daycare for a 13 year old and seriously how many people can afford after school care and before school care and vacation care on one pittance of an income. Not all single mothers are there by choice, wherever there is a single mother there is a father who opted out. The Government comprised of mostly barren women and middle aged men need to WAKE UP.
I struggled to work while my kids were young because I could not afford to work. My partner had a reasonable income, half of which he lost in tax. I was not eligible for child care assistance and because of that stupid rebate, the cost of child care doubled for everyone else. Its a joke. Introduce any rebate and all costs simply double. We had a simple life, no big trips, everything second hand and now I can work that they are all at school.

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