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Carers special: The Tregale family

Tuesday, May 4, 2010
The Tregale family, Watsonia, Victoria
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Millions of Australians are disabled themselves or care for someone with a profound disability. Read the shocking stories of those left to soldier on in silence.

The Tregale family, Watsonia, Victoria

"I had to be an undercover spy"

“Our youngest son, Paul, now 34, was born with severe intellectual disability,” says his mum Heather.

“I was so upset with the system when we reluctantly sought a group home for Paul at 20, that I did 12 months full time TAFE and got my qualification to work in group homes. I worked not for the money, but to find out what was going on behind the closed doors of group homes".

In her four years of work, Heather discovered residents beds made up despite being wet; meals were often poor; there was little teeth cleaning, nail cutting or attention to injuries. Adults were intimidated, made to stand in a corner or deliberately tipped out of wheelchairs for petty reasons. “

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User comments
I have worked in disability support field for over twenty years. In this time I have met some wonderful people - both carers and carees. I have also found a lot of abuse, a lot of neglect, a system tied up with red tape and heaps of wonderful staff burning out because they cared too much. Many of the people in charge had come into the service via other departments with no experience and were only interested in climbing the ladder to get somewhere better. They were not interested in the problems that wouldnt go away - only the positive things they could put on their resumees. I have also seen families come in abusing and robbing their own kin of everything. The caree would be so excited to see their family they would do ANYthing for them. Yes, the system is very corrupt - anywhere where one person is totally dependant on another can be abused.This is not an easy problem to fix but something needs to be done. Please remember Most of us care and are doing our best. It is a very hard job!

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