Do you have a friend who’s so busy looking out for everyone else that she neglects her own needs? It’s probably been such a long time since she thought about herself that she’s forgotten what a special person she is. And when we lose sight of how special we are, our self-esteem often takes a tumble. That’s where you come in …
Think of a deserving friend who fits the description above, and resolve to help her rediscover her worth. With a few thoughtful gestures, your can help jump-start your friend’s feelings of confidence. Simple gestures like these can go a long way to making her realise she’s worthy of a treat. Here’s how to show her that you really care, and boost her mood along the way – all it takes is a little planning.
Make her something
It’s an old-fashioned concept, but actually devoting time to creating a personalised gift for a friend is a really heartfelt thing to do. And no, it doesn’t have to be a crocheted tea-cosy!
Jump online and create a calendar featuring photos of the two of you, bake her a dozen choc-chip muffins, or put together a playlist of her favourite tunes. She’ll instantly feel warm and fuzzy, and be reminded how important she is to you – both great self-esteem boosters.
Treat her to a night out
How long is it since you treated a friend to a girly night? If you have a pal who’s run off her feet taking care of her kids, or works in a demanding office, an outing to the ballet or movies will give her a real break from the daily grind.
Check when she has a free night, then secretly book the tickets and send her an invitation via email or snail mail. What a lovely surprise for her – you’ll both have a ball, and she’ll be touched by your generosity. And while you’re out that evening, take the opportunity to let her know that she’s the most amazing Superwoman you know!
Do her a good turn
Offer to pick up a friend’s kids after school and look after them for the afternoon, care for her dog when she goes away for the weekend, or bring around some take-away and a romantic comedy DVD when she’s been feeling lonely or down.
Your thoughtfulness will be appreciated and remembered for a long time to come, and the fact that you’ve cleared your schedule to spend time with just the two of you will make her realise she’s a truly valued friend.
What do you think is the best way to give your friend a confidence boost? Or have you been on the receiving end of a good turn that made you feel extra-special? Thank your girlfriends here and now …
